But when Diana, 20, married Prince Charles, 32, 에 1981, she decided to remove the word “순종하다” from her vows — breaking royal precedent. 대신, Diana said she would “love him, comfort him, honor him, and keep him, in sickness and in health.”
The original phrase is from the 1662 Anglican Book of Common Prayer, which does not include the word “순종하다” in the husband’s vows toward his wife. Even Princess Elizabeth made her vows to obey her husband, something that would be technically impossible when she later became Queen.
둘 다 케이트
과 메건 followed in Diana’s footsteps omitting the word
“순종하다” in their wedding vows decades later
2. A royal education outside the palace walls
Diana made history again when her eldest son
, 프린스 윌리엄, was three and she decided to send him to preschool
— making him the first member of the royal family to attend preschool outside of the Buckingham Palace
. 과거에, future heirs to the throne stayed at home with a governess
에 1985, the Prince and Princess of Wales escorted their eldest son to his first day of school at Jane Mynor’s Nursery School in London
, 에 따르면 뉴욕 타임즈.
다이아나 공주, who once worked as an assistant teacher
, chose the small school because she wanted William to have a normal English child’s education
, the NYT reported at the time
해리 왕자 eventually followed in his brother’s footsteps by attending the same school two years later
. Diana’s choice to provide her sons with an early public education showcased not just her bravery to break from royal protocol but to expose her sons to as much a normal life as possible
3. Debunking the stigma around HIV/AIDS
One of the most iconic parts of Diana’s legacy was her involvement in the HIV/AIDs epidemic.
에 1987, Diana opened the UK’s first HIV/AIDs clinic
런던에서, when the virus was becoming a global health crisis and was often associated with misinformation
. It was at this clinic where Diana shook the hand of an AIDs patient
— without gloves
“HIV does not make people dangerous to know
, so you can shake their hands and give them a hug
, heaven knows
, they need it
,” Diana said
당시, it was controversial because many falsely believed the virus could be transferred through touch. This illustration of compassion and empathy for those affected by HIV/AIDs sent a clear message that if a royal family member wasn’t afraid to touch an AIDs patient than neither should anyone else. The scene was played around the world.
“The image of her holding hands with HIV/AIDS
. … It shattered the stigma
, prejudice and fear that surrounded HIV/AIDS in the early days
,” 말했다 Andrew Parkis, chief executive of the Diana Princess of Wales Memorial Fund
4 년 후, first lady Barbara Bush joined Diana at the clinic visiting patients, proving the Princess of Wales had strong political influence across the pond.
Today her humanitarian work lives on
. The Diana Princess of Wales Memorial Fund, set up after her death
, has raised millions and distributes funds to dozens of causes supported by Diana
, including AIDS prevention
, the hospice movement and landmine clearance
“The memorial has done a lot of good,” Diana’s brother, Charles, the ninth Earl Spencer, 말했다. “She didn’t go for the soft option. She didn’t go for the conventional charitable ideas that appealed to other people. … She went for the messy ones, the complicated ones, the frightening ones and made them her own.”
4. Modern fashion choices
Princess Diana broke royal protocol in her fashion choices numerous times, opting for more modern and casual pieces.
One of the most celebrated moments for the fashion icon was when she donned a midnight blue velvet
, off shoulder dress while dancing with John Travolta at the White House in
1985. Her elegance and grace made this photo unforgettable
Another iconic look was her “revenge dress,” the asymmetric
, figure-hugging mini dress she wore to a London event the day Prince Charles
’ publicly admitted to having an affair in
1994. Black was considered only appropriate for royals during funerals
“Her style was so very much her own
,” said Jack L
. Carlson, whose label Rowing Blazers recently launched a Diana-inspired
의류 라인. “She was not a follower
. 반대로, she did her own thing
, and we all watched in wonder and tried to keep up.
5. Raced barefoot at a school event
This lighthearted moment captured at one of Prince Harry’s school events showcased yet again the Princess of Wales’ appetite for fun and competition. She was publicly a more hands-on parent than previous royal generations. She took her sons skiing, to the beach, to water parks and even car racing.
에 1991, Diana participated in a foot race with other parents for
” at Wetherby School
. She ran barefoot and lost the race
, 신고 하퍼스 바자회.
Royals are usually expected to keep their shoes on when in public
. Most of these royal guidelines are learned and unspoken
. 에 따르면 Vogue
, one these rules is that shoes must be kept clean and tidy
But Diana didn’t let these guidelines infringe on her fun
. Prince Harry said in an ITV/HBO documentary after Diana’s passing that she was a
“kid through and through.