That’s why she decided to actually write out the costs and time commitments that she expected of her bridesmaids.
Lisa appears to have made the clip in response to another TikTok video, where the person wrote: “When you agree to be a bridesmaid without realizing it’ll cost 3 whole paychecks and every second of your PTO for the year.”
After showing that initial clip, the video cuts to Lisa, who said she was going to offer “a tip that I used to be more transparent with my bridal party.”
먼저, Lisa explained that before she got engaged, she had been a bridesmaid, but wasn’t aware of how much it was going to cost, or what exactly the bride expected of her as a bridesmaid.
That’s why she decided to change things up for her own bridesmaids, even though she felt awkward about it at first.
“I felt very insecure doing this, but I’m ultimately glad that I did and that was, include a letter of what I expected from my bridal party,” Lisa said in the clip.
She explained that she put the letter in a “cute little envelope” and included the letter in the gift box she gave to her prospective bridesmaids.