Whitham, 36, from Osceola, ミズーリ, found out his kidneys were failing in 2017 after he woke up blind one day.
Whitham has autism but he’s high-functioning and lives on his own, so when he wasn’t able to see, 彼 called his dad, 彼のお母さん, Connie Whitham said.
“He managed to call his dad and say, ‘I can’t see. I’m blind,’” Connie told Fox News.
Connie told Fox that she had always known her son would develop diabetes as an adult because when he was born he developed hypoglycemia and had to have most of his pancreas removed at 1-year-old. She said she had no idea her son’s kidneys would also start to fail as a result.
Whitham spent two weeks in the hospital during which time his eyesight returned. He was then transferred to Saint Luke’s East Hospital to begin dialysis.
Whitham told Fox News that the whole process was difficult, particularly as he went through dialysis, which meant he couldn’t work or do many of the things he loves because he was so worn out by the treatment.
Connie told Fox that Whitham spent about two years on dialysis, all while looking and praying for a kidney donor.
Whitham said, “I hoped and prayed for a long time that I would get one, because I don’t like living like that.”
Connie said she, her husband and Whitham asked their friends and acquaintances to get tested to be kidney donors. Connie and her husband talked about it at their church and Whitham even handed out flyers when he went out.
その間, their pastor was already getting tested to see if he would be a match.
Jack Coultas, 35, the pastor at Park Grove Christian Church in Deepwater, ミズーリ, told Fox News that he started thinking about getting tested almost as soon as he found out that Whitham qualified to be a recipient.
“It just seemed like God had given me this opportunity to be able to share with him something that I had that Jeremy desperately needed,” Coultas told Fox. “Through prayer and talking with my wife, it just seemed like it was the responsible and right thing to do for me as a Christian, to at least initially find out if I could even be a donor, just seeing if we were even a match.”
Coultas got tested and the results came back positive for a match.
In January of last year, doctors at Saint Luke’s Hospital of Kansas City successfully performed the kidney transplant.
今, Whitham is doing “much better” and told Fox he’s thankful his pastor was able to donate a kidney.
“His kidney was a perfect match for mine,” Whitham said.
“I feel like that’s a very good blessing from God,” Whitham added. “I’m just very, very thankful for everything.”
Connie said had Coultas not donated his kidney, her son might not have lived many more years, but now his health is in great shape and his diabetes is under control.
“We’re very grateful to Jack, we’re very grateful to God,” 彼女は言いました.
As far as Coultas is concerned, it wasn’t even a matter of being Whitham’s pastor, it was about being his “Christian brother.”
“I don’t think there was anything special about me doing it,” Coultas told Fox. “I think it’s part of basic Christian responsibility and duty to love, not just in patting people on the back, but actually stepping out and doing something to make a difference.”
最終的に, Connie and Coultas hope Whitham’s story encourages other people to get tested to be kidney donors.
“It’s such an incredible opportunity that is presented to a lot more people than they even recognize, that they can make such a difference in people’s lives,” Coltas said.