It was Reeve’s wife, Dana, who gave the actor the will to persevere after his accident, according to a biography on the Christopher and Dana Reeve Foundation website.
“When Dana whispered those life-saving words to me, ‘You’re still you. And I love you,’ it meant more to me than just a personal declaration of faith and commitment,” Reeve is quoted as saying. “In a sense it was an affirmation that marriage and family stood at the center of everything, and if both were intact, so was your universe.”
And it was seeing others struggle with their disabilities alongside him in rehabilitation that was the push to use his fame to advocate for them, Reeve once said.
“I felt I needed to do something — not just for myself but for everyone else in the same condition,” Reeve wrote. “Even if I had wanted to (which I didn’t), I would never be able to forget the other patients I had met during rehab. I had seen too much of their struggles and pain. I couldn’t go home, devote my life to myself and my family, and ignore the larger picture.”
In his autobiography, “Still Me,” Reeve wrote that people often asked him what a hero is, and Reeve would say it’s someone who does something courageous without thinking about the consequences.
“Now my definition is completely different,” Reeve wrote. “I think a hero is an ordinary individual who finds strength to persevere and endure in spite of overwhelming obstacles.”
“Feliz cumpleaños, Christopher Reeve—who remains a hero to many both on and off the screen!,” Google wrote in its tribute.