“The chill in her manner,” Nancy later wrote, “matched the chill in the room.”
These meetings aren’t always filled with tension; they sometimes set the stage for long-lasting relationships. Michelle Obama and Laura Bush were able to work together later in part because of those first interactions.
The transition from the Bushes to the Obamas is considered one of the smoothest in modern history, though Laura had to put aside some ill will during that visit. As she wrote in her memoir, “It is easy to criticize a sitting president when you are not the one in the Oval Office, when you are not responsible for the decisions that must be made…I thought of that when I heard the daily rants from the campaign trail. It got so that even the weather seemed to be George’s fault.”
Barack Obama, she felt, was more consumed with attacking her husband than he was with going after his rival for the presidency
, John McCain.
But Laura Bush invited Michelle Obama to the White House twice
, once alone and once with her daughters
. She showed her the dressing room window
, which has a view through the Rose Garden to the West Wing
, where first ladies can occasionally catch a glimpse of their husbands at work It’s a standard stop on the tour
. But the first stop on Laura Bush’s tour was special: The bedrooms she thought Sasha and Malia
, then ages
7 e 10, would like best
These visits make the presidency
— and all the family roles that go with it
— more connected to the humanity of the people who hold them
. In their meeting as mothers with young daughters were perhaps the seeds of the moment in
2014 when Obama
, then first lady
, and Bush hosted a meeting
(coinciding with President Obama’s US
– Africa Leaders Summit
) with the spouses of African leaders that focused on the role they could play to improve education and health care in their countries
At a 2016 event at the George W. Bush Presidential Center, Michelle Obama praised her predecessor. “As you all know, I deeply admire and respect Laura. And I think that it’s important to collaborate with people you admire and respect, regardless of party. That’s what makes a democracy work, truly.” Lo scorso aprile, the two former first ladies participated in a joint event to raise money for Covid- 19 risposta. A collaboration like this is hard to imagine between Melania Trump and any other first lady.
Former presidents Bill Clinton
, George W.. Bush and Barack Obama will attend Joe Biden’s inauguration and after they will join Biden at Arlington National Cemetery for a wreath laying ceremony at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier
. Michelle Obama, Laura Bush and Hillary Rodham Clinton will also be there
. This display of unity will bring Melania Trump’s decision to do away with tradition into stark relief
When Hillary Clinton gave Laura Bush her tour
, she led her to that window in the first lady’s dressing room e detto,
“Your mother-in-law stood right here and told me that from this window you can see straight down into the Rose Garden and also over to the Oval Office.
” I wish Melania Trump had done the right thing and shown Jill Biden that same spot
, whether she felt like doing it or not